01
The old man was hospitalized with lung cancer, and his family was almost hollowed out. Finally, there was nothing they could do but watch the old man suffer from the pain.
One night before the old man left, he called his grandson to his bed, carefully took out a passbook from his arms, and whispered to his grandson:
"This is some private money I left. I knew that silly old lady would give me her pension money to see a doctor;
I hid the money secretly. I'll leave it to her for retirement after I leave... "
It only takes a second to meet someone, an hour to like someone, and a lifetime to love someone.
Our life is very short, only enough to love one person.
02
On Valentine's Day, my grandfather with senile dementia disappeared.
In the evening, the hospital called to say that an old man with the phone sewn on his clothes stood in a ward and refused to leave.
When I went to pick up my grandfather, my mother cried as soon as she entered the ward, where she died.
When I saw that silly grandpa's rose I didn't know where to pick up, I suddenly thought of Valentine's Day a few years ago.
When I asked my grandfather why he didn't give her roses, he said that a foolish old lady can't match roses.
In life, some are worried about the future, but some may be worried about the future.
There are always unexpected existence in life, but also some precious loss.
Find more what you have around you, cherish every day you have, and life will be more warm and beautiful.
03
After marriage, a boy treats his wife better than before.
At a party, a friend laughed at him: Why are you so tired of getting married.
He smiled and said:
"Before marriage, many boys wanted to chase her. Many boys would be nice to her. I can only catch her if I treat her better;
After marriage, fewer and fewer boys treat her well. Only by treating her better can I prevent her from losing.
All I do is to make her happy. "
After saying that, all the friends present were silent. There was no ridicule, only admiration.
Marriage is not so simple. It is not your pursuit. I will be safe forever if I marry.
If you don't pay attention, the tiredness that comes after the passion fades is enough to defeat you and me.
And those good marriages, which are more mellow as time flies, are all based on the painstaking efforts of people who have a heart to work in small matters.
04
5 years old: "Mom, please cook braised pork in brown sauce."
"OK, burn it."
15 years old: "Mom, stop cooking braised pork in brown sauce for a change."
"OK, buy other dishes."
35 years old: "Son, when will you go home to have a meal? Mom will cook braised pork with brown sauce."
"No, I'm busy recently."
50 years old: "Mom came by your house today and brought you braised pork."
"No, I'm not at home today."
70 years old: "Mom, I want to eat braised pork."
There is no mother's voice... "
Bi Shumin said:
"If parents are here, there is still a way to go. If parents go, there is only a way back!"
Behind every successful child, there is no lack of parents' painstaking efforts;
Every child can't fly without their parents' hard work.
Therefore, no matter how luxuriant people live, they should not forget the roots buried below.
Filial piety in time is the best reward for parents.
05
One day, the woman in the office bet:
Using the same set of questions, call their husbands.
She was a little worried and decided that she would humiliate herself because she knew too much about her husband's dead brain and confused feelings.
As a result, all female colleagues were moved by her husband's answer.
Their calls are as follows:
"Honey, will you give me whatever I want?"
"Of course."
"I want stars."
"If you raise a cactus, you will die, but also raise an orangutan? How much is an orangutan?"
"No, I want the stars in the sky!"
"Well... I'll show you at home in the evening."
Why can such a simple answer win the championship?
Because the husbands of other women basically answered like this: "Neurosis!"
Deep love is not as good as long company, and love needs no more words.
I don't need a vow of eternal love. I just hope you can sit beside me, enjoy the weather and enjoy the spring flowers.
06
She grew up in an orphanage.
There were several kind-hearted couples who wanted to adopt her, but they were rejected by her stubborn.
Now 24 years old, she lives and works alone in a big city, which is no different from other single women in the city.
She also has a cat called Ma Ma. She likes this kitten very much, although she can't help crying when she accidentally pronounces the numb name in the first tone several times.
Life is short. Only by cherishing the people around you can we reduce some regrets.
Spend more time with your family, sit quietly together, look at the familiar faces of your family, and listen to their happy laughter, it is beautiful.
07
Dad has Alzheimer's disease, his memory is getting worse and worse, and he can't even recognize his son.
My son took him to dinner, and there were two dumplings left on the plate. My father grabbed the dumplings and put them in his pocket.
The son was stunned.
My father said, this is for my son. My son likes this most.
Most of the time, parents will get old, and parents will also get sick.
Even if he doesn't remember himself, he forgets everything, but he never forgets to love you.
Even a little effort can make parents' hearts warm.
As life goes on, you might as well turn around and give your parents a tight hug.
Say loudly: "I love you".
08
He held her and watched the sunset on the bench by the lake in the park, murmuring.
He said: At noon, the sun and the earth are in love, and at dusk, they are in love.
He always said this, and she always smiled and said nothing.
Their eyes met, and they held each other tighter.
The next day, the morning exercisers found an old man walking peacefully in the park with a picture frame in his arms, which was a mottled and faded photo.
The most beautiful scenery is not in the distance, but in the heart.
In this world, as many people get together, there will be many deaths;
As many people die, so many people will feel the same way.
There is a feeling that is unforgettable even though heaven and man are separated forever!
09
On the evening when Grandma died, Grandpa accompanied her in the ward to finish the last journey of her life.
Before Grandma left, Grandpa said, "School is over.".
Grandpa, who had been pretending to be calm, cried like a child after hearing this sentence.
After the funeral, I asked my grandfather about the meaning of these three words, and he told me that this was what he and his grandmother used to say when they were still in primary school:
School is over, let's go home together.
Yu Qiuyu said:
"The leaves are yellow, and I am waiting for you under the tree;
The moon is bent, I am waiting for you at 15;
We are old, and I am waiting in the next life. "
May there be years to look back on, and a total of love.
ten
A grandpa in the clan, who is over 70 years old, unexpectedly sat on the mud floor outside the gate with several five or six year old children playing marbles and yelling and playing tricks.
Grandmother heard about it and came out with a stick to beat him. He got up and ran.
Finally, he was caught up and was beaten by a stick.
After that, he smiled and said:
"If my mother didn't fall, she wouldn't catch me..."
No matter how old you are, when you hear the word "mother", you are both surprised and afraid.
Mother is always the warmest existence. You can always be a child when your mother is here.
eleven
Dad was seriously ill and lay in bed for more than half a month without waking up. Then he woke up suddenly one afternoon.
When he woke up, his mouth was moving all the time. His mother put her ear close to him and said:
"Slow down, I'm listening."
Dad said weakly:
"It's time for my daughter to go home from school. Go and cook the meal..."
Sometimes, you have no idea how happy it is to be a child.
No matter what the parents themselves are experiencing, the first thing they care about is "how is the child?".
twelve
My mother once bought a bunch of sweet osmanthus with ordinary appearance.
We complained that it was not very delicious. Mother said in a low voice:
"I think the old granny selling longans is old, just like your grandmother."
We suddenly calmed down: it had been more than a year since Grandma died at that time.
A lot of deep feelings and yearnings can not be expressed.
After crying, you can't just put it down.
Maybe time can slow down, but some of the deepest love, maybe this life, all in mind.
