As the name suggests, open marriage is a casual lifestyle adopted by both husband and wife in terms of sexual life after marriage, that is, sexual life is casual and does not restrain each other. This kind of marriage is similar to a man and a woman dancing, if they feel good, they will continue to dance, and if they feel bad, they will go their separate ways and find their own things.
Why Open Marriage is Recommended:
Because an open marriage is about making rules that are suitable for both parties fairly and openly. Many people therefore advocate open marriage, they believe that two people in an open marriage will pay more attention to the communication between themselves and others, and pay more attention to the realization of self-worth, which has a positive effect on individuals to a certain extent.
An open marriage is a form in which you are open to the outside world. Both parties have enough spiritual and emotional freedom, and everyone can have the opportunity to gain experience and development possibilities from outside the marriage. Open marriage also refers to the casual lifestyle adopted by the husband and wife in the practice of life after marriage, specifically the absence of restraint between each other, and the sexual life of the husband and wife at will.
Both parties establish equal freedom and trust in each other, and both husband and wife are based on the premise of self, thinking about themselves first, and not living for each other. In married life, there is no need to worry about family trivialities, and the relationship between the two parties is based on mutual worship and trust.
1. What is an open marriage?
Open marriage is a special form of marital relationship, which refers to a marital state in which the husband and wife do not restrain each other's emotional relationship after marriage, and do not interfere too much with each other's sex life, just like two people dancing on the dance floor, they can change partners at any time and change according to their own mood state.
2. Analysis of the pros and cons of open marriage
There are two types of open marriages, one is an open marriage carried out by mutual agreement, and the other is a passive open marriage.
1. Analysis of the advantages of open marriage
(1) Freedom and equality
An open marriage relationship is equal and free, both parties can find their favorite object, and there is no "only the governor is allowed to set fires, and the people are not allowed to light lamps", this kind of marriage relationship is based on respect for each other's free feelings, and it is very real to be honest with each other's emotional desires.
(2) Reduce small contradictions
An open marriage relationship is based on the premise that both parties are honest and open about their emotional mentality, so in the process of getting along in marriage, they will be more honest and can avoid many small conflicts compared with traditional marriage.
(3) Enrich life experience
Open marriage means getting along with a lot of different people, in fact, maintaining a relatively stable stimulation of the marriage relationship, in the process of getting along with others, constantly enrich their life experience and understanding, and substitute this into their own married life, a variety of forces make the marriage relationship more interesting, more able to maintain freshness.
2. Analysis of the disadvantages of open marriage
(1) Marital relationship
Open marriage actually has a higher degree of requirements for personal mentality, and it is actually difficult for many people to accept the emotional state of their partner, whether it is an open marriage or a passive open marriage, as long as someone changes their mentality in the middle, then for this person, it will be very tormenting and anxious, and it is also a devastating blow to the marriage relationship.
(2) Laws and regulations
Strictly speaking, open marriage is not legal in our country, and it is also unacceptable to many people at the moral level, and the education we received from childhood requires us to be dedicated and loyal to our lovers, otherwise we are "scumbags, scumbags", so it is a reality that open marriage is currently difficult to be accepted by most people, and the related child support and economic problems are difficult to control.
(3) False open marriages
Due to the particularity of open marriage, many people will cause harm to their other half under the guise of open marriage, and the basis for the establishment of open marriage should be the mutual agreement of both parties after discussion, rather than the "wishful thinking" of one party, and the name of open marriage will cause indelible blows and damage to the other party.
