The office is a place to work, so what harm would it do if there was a romance?
First, it is easy to confuse the two relationships
The biggest effect of dating in the office is that it can make it difficult to distinguish between work and romance. When we are in love, we all become very emotional, so when we have conflicts, it is likely that these conflicts in life will affect our normal work or affect other colleagues. In this way, it is very detrimental to the development of work, which affects the trust of leaders in themselves, which is why many large companies do not allow people in the office to fall in love with each other.
2. Affect your work efficiency
Office romance will seriously affect your work efficiency, for example, the leader assigns tasks to everyone in your department, and your girlfriend suddenly feels uncomfortable, you will definitely choose to take her to the hospital first, so as to forget about this task. Although most companies are in humane consideration and do not publicize that you can't fall in love in the office, if you delay the work assigned by the leader for a long time, then for the sake of the overall benefit, the boss will definitely still fire you.
3. Affect one's interactions with others
Falling in love in the office is likely to affect the normal interpersonal space between you and other colleagues, because when you communicate with colleagues of the opposite sex, they will not dare to get too close to you because you have a partner, so as not to attract gossip. In the long run, there will be communication between colleagues, but it will only stop at the surface, so office romance will greatly affect your social circle.
Fourth, it may also affect the work
From the above various influences, it can be seen that office romance will definitely have an impact on your work, because if you want to get a promotion and a raise, the appreciation of your boss and the support of your colleagues are very necessary. However, office romance has affected our interpersonal and productivity levels, which is bound to affect our path to higher mobility. Although not every office romance will affect the career of the person involved, I think that if you are not very good and have low self-control, you should try to avoid office romances.
The harms of office romance are: it is easy to affect work, it is easy to become the cradle of extramarital affairs, it is difficult to choose interests in terms of interests, there are many small frictions in office romances, and it affects normal workplace communication.
1. It is easy to affect the work. Colleagues in the office love each other, even if it is legitimate love for marital purposes, and since people tend to be distracted in love, especially in the passionate love phase, they inevitably neglect their work and sometimes seriously delay their official duties. And because there are many times of negligence, another person will be more or less affected, which can easily magnify the problem.
2. It can easily be the cradle of extramarital affairs. According to the survey, 90% of extramarital affairs come from the office. Married people or office colleagues can also have emotional collisions at any time, and both parties will fall into the whirlpool of love. If this happens, in addition to the same experience as in the first case, it will be morally and morally condemned, since everyone knows its roots and the bottom line, since it is not a legitimate relationship after all. There is no doubt that these will cause great damage to the company.
3. It's hard to make a choice about interests. As a result of the joint efforts of both parties, some conflicts of interest arise at work. Once they have a relationship, the handling of these events will inevitably seem very complicated and awkward. Once these matters involving interests are not handled well, they may affect the normal work of the next step.
4. There is a lot of friction in office romances. Men and women in office romances often get together day and night, which can easily lead to friction and estrangement. Usually there are many unavoidable times at work, due to the love relationship between two people, many times there will be more requirements for some small details. At this time, it is likely to be a period of constant friction.
5. Affect normal workplace communication. Both men and women are limited in their interpersonal interactions in the company, and both the same sex and the opposite sex are significantly affected. Communication with the opposite sex is well known to the public, and communication between people of the same sex can also be influenced by love. A very typical phenomenon is that you have more time for dinner and tea each day. Of course, you spend less time with other colleagues.
What's the harm of an office romance
1. Beware of the unstable emotions caused by the separation and integration of love.
The office romance is still in the embryonic stage, and the sweetness of the hazy period will tightly surround the two people, and even begin to feel that they don't like to go to work, and slowly become active, in order to perform in front of their favorite objects, they work very hard, so the company is of course welcome. But once they confess to each other and start to enter a romantic relationship, there will inevitably be friction between them. And in the same office, look down and don't look up, want to hide and have no way to hide, always because of the quarrel to tie themselves, they have become moody, emotionally unstable, directly affect their work mood, if the lovers break up, then it is likely that one party does not want to continue to stay in the company, and choose to resign, for the company, the loss of talent, is a great loss.
2. Maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships in the workplace, and don't disrupt teamwork because of personal emotions.
In the work, regardless of public and private, bring feelings into the work, the small camp formed by the two people will slowly break away from the company's team, which is not easy for the unified management of the boss, and once one party is wronged in the company, the other party may play the role of a protector, thus affecting the relationship with colleagues. And office romance will also distract oneself from work to some extent, and even affect work efficiency, which is intolerable for the company side with the pursuit of interests as the core.
3. Prevent the phenomenon of using public for personal gain.
If the boss and the subordinate are in love, then when evaluating the work of the subordinate and reviewing the promotion, it will inevitably bring personal feelings. The company is worried that the boss can't treat each subordinate fairly, and there are obviously outstanding talents who are not promoted, but choose lovers with mediocre performance. This is not conducive to the development of the company and will also cause dissatisfaction among employees.
In a survey of many people in the workplace, it was found that although the company is very opposed to office romance, 80% of them believe that office romance is no problem and can be developed. And the remaining 20% believe that office romances will have an impact on them and are better not involved. The main reason they give is that the change in mood will definitely have an impact on their work and will not be beneficial to their future life development. There is also a reason that facing lovers on a daily basis can breed stress and affect the interaction of other colleagues of the opposite sex.
Networking is very important in the workplace, because the other party is of the opposite sex, and is forbidden to interact by lovers, which will make your career path narrower and narrower, which is not conducive to development. Some people also think that they are together at work, together after work, and together on weekend dates, day and night, the freshness will slowly disappear, and the two people will also have a sense of burnout, and the relationship cannot be maintained for a long time. If you want to make your workplace love safe and stable without affecting your work, you really need to manage it seriously and resolve various challenges and difficulties more intelligently.
