There are four stages of love:
1. The period of hot love
Two people in the love period are often more tired, eager to stick together every day, and every time they are together, there are endless words to say and things to do. This is probably also the happiest period for two people together. But couples must pay attention to the fact that at this stage, they must make things clear when they encounter some arguments, and don't blindly tolerate each other because they want to create a perfect image when they are together at the beginning. If you don't like it, you must tell the other person at the beginning. In this way, two people can understand each other, understand each other, and continue to walk well
2. Run-in period
After the love period, the two came to the run-in period, at this time, the two people's lives were dull and began to enjoy each other's company. Two people in this period are most likely to be suspicious, and what couples need to do is to learn to explain to each other, and communicate patiently with each other on a date.
3. Flat period
At this time, two people often feel that they need a little personal space, and sometimes they feel that the other person doesn't love them. In fact, this is not the case, but two people have reached a quiet period, that is, they need a little personal space, they must learn to understand each other, and they can't stick together every day, so that the freshness will fade quickly.
4. Marriage
When two people successfully pass the first three stages, they will successfully step into the palace of marriage. At this time, they have already regarded each other as family, and they have surpassed love. When you enter the palace of marriage, you will also face many new problems. At this time, you should learn to empathize and not be self-centered, and many problems will be solved.
4 stages that must be passed in love!
Stage 1
Love period: 1~3 months
I want to be tired of being with each other all the time, think that the other party is my "destiny", and are willing to pay time and money for each other
Stage 2
Anti-dependence period: 3~6 months
The anti-dependency period can also be called the quarrel period, during which you will discover each other's shortcomings and imperfections. Quarrels, incomprehension, disappointment, and cold wars often occur in this period, but your feelings also make you try to redeem...
Stage 3
Suspicion period: 7~8 months
The suspicion period is also called the contradiction period, in this stage your contradictions will be magnified, and each other will doubt whether the other party has "changed their minds"? or "look away" The reasons include personality, family environment, money and material troubles, etc., at this time, if there is no success in running-in, then most people will choose to separate...
Stage 4
Co-existence period: after 9~12 months
The coexistence period is also called the stability period, that is, after experiencing many tests and run-ins, your relationship tends to be stable, and each other is accustomed to each other's existence and lifestyle; You have matured, understood, supported, and worked together for the future.
Precautions for Falling in Love:
1. You can do it in love, but don't do it too much.
Every girl is in love, either insecure, or spoiled by her boyfriend. However, don't do too much! As a way to hone your emotions, no matter how good your emotions are, they will be lost.
2. You don't have to make a decision when you get angry.
Some girls propose to break up as soon as they get angry, and the boys will continue to coax at first, sincerely. After more frequencies, if you see if he breaks up with you, people will be tired.
3. When you fall in love, you don't have to spend time on suspecting that your boyfriend doesn't love you.
The more suspicious you are, the more he loves you, but the more suspicious you are, the less likely he is to have a good opinion of you.
